How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera: Tips for Couples


Hey there! I’m Paige, a wedding photographer who loves capturing authentic, real moments between couples. One of the most common things I hear from my clients is, “We’re so awkward in front of the camera!” or “We don’t know how to pose.” Trust me, you’re not alone! Most couples feel a little nervous about having their photos taken, especially if it’s not something they do regularly. But don’t worry—I’ve got you covered.


Over the years, I’ve learned some great tricks to help couples relax and enjoy the process. After all, your photos should be a reflection of your true selves and the love you share. Here are my top tips to help you feel comfortable in front of the camera.

Choose a Photographer You Connect With


This might be the most important tip of all! Your photographer should feel like a friend, someone who makes you feel relaxed and at ease. When you’re comfortable with your photographer, it’s much easier to let your guard down and be yourself. Make sure to meet or have a virtual chat before your session to see if you vibe well together.


During our first meeting, I always try to get to know my couples better—what makes you laugh, what you’re passionate about, and what you envision for your photos. It helps me create a comfortable environment where you feel like you’re hanging out with a friend rather than posing for a stranger.

Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera


One of the best ways to feel at ease is to focus on each other rather than the camera. Remember, this is about capturing your connection, your love story. So, whisper something sweet (or silly!) in your partner’s ear, hold each other close, and just enjoy being together. Forget about me and the camera—think of it as a date, not a photoshoot.


I’ll often give gentle guidance to help you get into the moment, but the best photos happen when you’re genuinely interacting with each other. Laugh, talk, snuggle—it’s these natural moments that create the most beautiful, authentic photos.

Wear Something You Love and Feel Confident In


Your outfit plays a big role in how you feel in front of the camera. Choose something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. If you’re wearing clothes that feel restrictive or aren’t “you,” it can show in the photos. Think about colors that complement each other, textures that add interest, and styles that reflect your personalities.

Don’t forget to wear comfortable shoes, especially if we’ll be walking around different locations. If you’re unsure about what to wear, I’m always here to help with outfit suggestions that work well for photos.

Practice Before Your Session


Feeling a bit unsure about posing? Try practicing in front of a mirror or even snapping some fun selfies with your partner before the big day. This might sound silly, but it can help you get comfortable with how you naturally move and what angles you like.


I’ll guide you during the session, but a little practice beforehand can make a big difference in how relaxed you feel. Remember, it’s not about perfect poses; it’s about capturing the real you.

Embrace Movement


Photos don’t always have to be perfectly still. Some of the most beautiful, natural shots come from movement. Whether it’s a slow walk hand-in-hand, a twirl, or even a little dance, movement brings a sense of life and spontaneity to your photos. I might ask you to walk toward the camera, spin around, or even run (yes, run!). These prompts aren’t just for fun; they help create natural, candid moments where you forget the camera is even there.

Trust Your Photographer’s Guidance


I’m here to make sure you look and feel your best! Trust me to guide you through the session, offering gentle direction and prompts to help you feel comfortable. I’m not going to ask you to do anything that doesn’t feel natural or authentic to you.


I like to start with some simple poses to help ease you into it, then move into more candid shots as you start to feel more relaxed. The more you trust me and the process, the better the results will be.

Breathe and Relax


It’s easy to forget to breathe when you’re nervous! Take a few deep breaths before we start and throughout the session to help calm your nerves. Remember, this is supposed to be fun. Don’t stress about looking perfect—just enjoy the moment with your partner.


I often remind my couples to take a breath, shake out any tension, and just be present. The more relaxed you are, the more genuine and beautiful your photos will be.

Remember, There’s No “Right” Way to Be Photographed


There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to being in front of the camera. Some people love to be silly and playful, while others are more reserved and romantic. There’s no “right” way to do this—just be yourselves!


The goal is to capture your love story, in your way. I’m here to help guide and support you, but ultimately, the best photos happen when you’re being your true selves.

Have Fun!


At the end of the day, remember that this is about celebrating your love. Don’t worry too much about the camera or what you think you “should” look like. Just have fun, be in the moment, and let your love shine through.


I always aim to create an environment where you feel free to laugh, play, and enjoy each other’s company. The more fun you’re having, the better your photos will turn out!

Final Thoughts


Feeling comfortable in front of the camera comes down to being yourself and letting go of any pressure to be perfect. I’m here to capture the real, authentic moments that make your relationship unique. If you’re worried about being awkward or nervous about your upcoming session, let’s chat! I’d love to help you feel at ease and make your photoshoot a fun, memorable experience.